I thought I should celebrate my progress so far with my ED recovery.
I began seeing my dietitian at the end of August this year and have since made alot of positive mental progress. My thoughts towards food have changed, my eating occurrences have increased, my hunger and cravings have decreased and my mood and energy levels feel more stabilised. I still have my days when I slip up but here is an overview of how things have changed since early this year.
Below is a tally of how many days per month I engaged in binge/purge behaviours.
April: 13
May: 23
June: 22
July: 21
August: 18
September: 14
October: 6
It’s hard to determine all the reasons why I behave in this way, there are many different triggers but often the initation of doing the behaviour snowballs into its continuation. It’s a habit I’ve developed and ingrained into my psyche over many many years and it needs conscious interception to stop and swap it with healthy behaviours.
I’m learning to be less harsh on myself, but that’s difficult as I feel pressures all around to be more, do more, be better. This rings true inside my mind even when I’m alone. If I sit for too long I feel guilty and lazy. I also have intrusive thoughts questioning why I bother to do anything at all. I tell myself I’m not contributing to society, I’m not a helpful person to talk to, I’m a bad influence, etc etc. These thoughts are hard to muffle.
On a lighter note, I’m going to end with a positive quote.
*All I need comes to me at the right place and at the right time*